Love is one of the best parts of a person’s life that make him/her happy and no body wants to lose their love for any reason. If you broke up you lover and after sometime you realise that he/she is perfect for you and want to get lost love back then it is essential for you to plan an effective strategy so that you can bring your lover back in your life.
Many times, breakup happens due to misunderstanding, anger and depression and people regret them later. When you broke up someone then you may feel loneliness in your life and want to get you to love back but it takes time and you do not make your ex frustrated by sending messages and constant calls after break up.
Here are a few tips that are one best way to get your love back in a best and effective manner.
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1.Understand the problem of your relationship (Rishtey mein samasyaon ko samajna)
First of all, it is essential for you to understand the problem that cause your breakup and make sure to give construction on all things and realize your mistake. You need to take some time and make sure that you want that person again in your life.
It is essential for you to take some time and focus on yourself. You need to make necessary changes in your personality and make sure to stay cool and spend some time with your friends that help you to improve your personality and it will show a positive attitude toward your ex-lover. With the improvements in your personality, you become more confident to talk with your ex in an effective manner.
2.Communicate effectively (Prabhavshaali Savaand)
You need to stay connected with your ex and have a chat once or twice. You should not do continues text and calls to him or her and make sure to communicate in an effective and polite way. With effective communication, you can clear all your misunderstanding in an effective manner. You should not blame each other for the things happen in past, so always concentrate to clear all things in an effective manner and make sure that you do not create any big issues that can make it difficult to get your love back.
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3.Spend a good time with each other (Eksaath Accha samay bitaye)
Starting with small talk and chat, you can ask him or her for a date and higher acceptance is a good sign for you to get him back in your life. You can also spend weekends with each other or some free time and this helps you to build your relations in an effective manner. If you are serious about your relation then you need to work with patience and clam so that you can gain her/his trust again and able to build a stronger relation than before.
4.Recognize that all relationships have their ups and downs. (Aaapne samasyao ko samje)
Just as you can’t expect to be happy all the time, you shouldn’t expect your relationship to be at a continuous high. When you make a long-term commitment to someone you have to be willing to ride the highs, as well as the lows, together.
5. Keep the 3:1 ratio.
Over the course of a day we have a variety of positive and negative experiences. This is also true when it comes to our relationship with our significant other. Most people think that as long as the positive experiences outweigh the negative, everything is fine. However, this isn’t so. It’s the ratio of positive to negative that matters.