Signs that you are in love (Sanket jo aapko bataye ki aap pyaar mein hai )
Now that you already are in a dilemma and understand that it is really necessary to know what you actually feel, read on to know how and what telling signs will help you find out the truth!
So if you are feeling confused over what you are feeling, and wondering if it’s love, lust or infatuation, just use these small anecdotes by me, to help understand yourself and your heart and mind better!
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- Is it infatuation? (Kya ye Sammoh hai?)
Infatuation can sometimes tricky you real bad into believing that you are in love. Most of the times it would be in our younger years, or maybe our first experiences with a partner. There is a burst of happiness that comes along with an adrenaline rush that runs through your entire body, and makes you beam with excitement. These feelings could intact be so intense, that they make you believe that you are in love; only to make you realize t[later that those feelings have faded away and you are left in a mess. Infatuation can be described as a short lived admiration or passion for someone, which would melt away in due time. In order to tell the difference here, you would have to distinguish your feelings and deeply think about their essence and till how long can you just admire someone on the basis of those feelings?
- Is it attraction? (Kya ye aakarshan hai?)
When we talk of attraction, you might be thinking that it must be the same as infatuation. However, they are not. ‘Infatuation’ is a phase of excitement, whereas attraction can be backed by hormones as well. There might be a dozen things that attract you to a person, and at times, even while meeting for the first time, you could feel an attraction so intense, that you might believe it to be love at first sight. Though I am not saying that love at first sight does not exist at all, yet, it would be truer to say that it is a feeling of intense attraction. Such a feeling could also escalate to real love, but knowing someone above just their physical appearance, would be necessary to discover if you have really fallen in love with them.
Since attraction can lead to love in the long run, if it proves to be constant, you can very well find out how compatible you would be with your partner if you fall in love.
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- Is it lust? (Kya Ye Havas hai?)
When it is all lust in you, the primary motivation factor that would be there which attracts you to your partner, would definitely be physical and sexual desires. This would mean that everything you do – purposely or without thought, be it all the sweet nothings and the romantic gestures; will ultimately lead you both to the bedroom for sex. You would give huge importance to looking good at all costs, because physical beauty would be of huge importance to you for sticking around. True love is different. People in love would even love spending the most boring of times, however mundane they might sound for others, with the one they love.
How does it really feel like when you love someone for real? And, is it possible to know whether you are really in love with your partner, or are just attracted to them? Is it only a phase of infatuation or do you only have lustful desires for him? These questions might be boggling your head since you are here reading this article now. To make it easier for you, and help letting you stop wandering, the following are signs that you are probably in a real love relationship.
Remedies To avoid lust
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Venus is the main planet governing sex and thoughts related to sexual acts. But only thought cannot do anything, Mars or Rahu provide the native with the required will power and aggression to go ahead and fulfill his lust. This leads to incest, rapes, Prostitution, extramarital affairs, Gay sex, and Lesbian sex – whatever one can imagine. Western Astrologers take note of Pluto, Neptune etc but I don’t consider them.
The affliction to moon and related houses, combined with conjunctions of some types makes a male or a female indulge into these immoral activities.
Venus is the chief governor or media, films, music, literature etc. There are so many famous people from these trades who have not only married twice but had extramarital relations even after that. There is always some or the other personality exposed by world media. This is no secret and we all know it. In fact, ability to have sex is the first criteria if one wants to go into film or television industry – it is rumored so. The connection is obvious as the planet is the same which controls both.
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When affliction to Venus is severe and houses 8th and 12th are also connected then it becomes very much impossible for a man to control his desires and he can go to any limit to have sex. Same goes with females.
Such people are always thinking about sex only, but from the front they seem to be very soft and sweet spoken. You can see the faces and speeches of recently arrested Babas, sadhvi`s, Corporate entities and their sins – which are all in the media.
I have come across such “great” people and found that they have very bad positions of mars, Venus, rahu and connection with bad houses. These people are always thinking talking about intercourse and enhancing their sex powers by use of black magic, aphrodisiacs, visiting to miraculous saints etc.
- You have your partner in your mind at almost all times.
It is not like that you would be obsessed or thinking about him/her 24*7, but it would be safe to say that you would be addicted to them. You would have them at the back of your mind, while doing the busiest of things or even the minutest of things. It would also mean that when you are out and about, things you see or hear will remind you of your partner.
- Your partner’s mood would affect you directly.
When you are in love, you would be glad and contended if you saw your partner in a good mood and being happy. If they were in a bad mood or were sad, it would obviously affect you, and you would try to lift up their mood and try everything possible to make them feel better.
- You would love spending time together, however short and no matter where.
When you are in love, it would not just be that ‘late night party’, ‘fine dining date’, or ‘weekend getaway to the countryside’, that might attract you. Being in love means enjoying even the shortest of times together and getting excited about binge watching your favorite series while gobbling on popcorn and freshly delivered pizza. You would never feel that the time spend together was being wasted, and every minute together, even while doing nothing, would count.
- Your partner would always motivate you to be your best self and encourage you in all of your endeavors, and vice versa.
When you are seriously in love, you tend to see the zeal, talent, caliber, and aptitude in your partner, and always be in constant appreciation for them and strive them to believe that they can do better.
- You would show interest in the things they care about or are passionate in, and sometimes even try them out.
When in love, you would love to know what things interest your partner, and understand why they are passionate about it. You would try to actively be a part of their lives, and try to understand their interests, passions, and hobbies.
- You discuss things openly and listen to each other, and also compromise when it is necessary.
When you are in love, you would always try to sit down and discuss the cause of your arguments and misunderstandings, rather than shouting at each other and trying to find faults. After the heat of moment passes, you would share opinions and then try to solve your conflicts so that they do not bring distances among you.
- You like to learn new things together, and enjoy a lot of experiences.
When you are in real love relationship, you would nit just want to be together in bed, or go dining at the new restaurant around the corner. You would be eager to do real things of importance and make memories, and be a part of life’s bigger experiences. You would plan new things to learn together or experience something new for the first time together, and just be there for each other and enjoy your time together.